My Story

Welcome, I am Nilani. My journey into psychotherapy has been shaped by a lifetime of diverse experiences and an unwavering commitment to supporting mental well-being. I understand that life’s transitions and challenges can often feel overwhelming, but I believe that healing and self-discovery are always within reach.

As an immigrant from Sri Lanka, I have navigated the complexities of cultural intersections and the impact of racial, cultural, and socioeconomic factors on mental health. These personal experiences have given me a unique perspective on the invisible threads that influence our mental well-being and how they can shape our identities and relationships.

For over a decade, I worked as a Special Education teacher, witnessing firsthand the importance of creating safe, inclusive spaces for growth and self-expression. I saw how identity, belonging, and self-discovery play crucial roles in our ability to thrive. These lessons now guide my approach to therapy.

Today, as a psychotherapist, I bring my own immigrant experience, teaching background, and passion for mental health into my practice. I am here to provide a compassionate and culturally sensitive space where you can explore the connections between your culture, identity, and mental health. Together, we will work to untangle your challenges and uncover your inner strengths.

I aim to empower you to take meaningful steps toward healing, growth, and self-acceptance. Whether you are navigating life transitions, grappling with cultural identity, or seeking a greater sense of belonging, I am here to support you every step of the way.

Let’s embark on this journey together—your path to self-discovery and healing starts here.

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Credentials:

  • BA: Bachelor of Arts (Specialized Honours in Psychology)

  • LASD: Law and Society Diploma

  • B.Ed: Bachelor of Education

  • MA: Master of Arts if Counselling Psychology

  • RP-Q: Registered Psychotherapist-Qualifying

  • EMDR trained

Membership:

  • OCT: Ontario College of Teachers

  • CCPA: The Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association

  • CRPO: The College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario

How We Help

Discover Your Unique Journey

At Mind Matter, we honour the richness of your experiences and the complexity of your story. Together, we will navigate the challenges of anxiety, depression, trauma, and other mental health concerns, uncovering your strengths and embracing the transformative potential within you.

Tailored, Evidence-Based Care

With a personalized approach rooted in cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT), and solution-focused therapy, we integrate proven techniques to address your unique needs and aspirations.

Empowerment and Transformation

Our collaboration is designed to help you build resilience, foster self-discovery, and create positive change. Together, we will illuminate a path to greater balance, empowerment, and a deeper sense of well-being.

Frequently Asked Questions

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